Tonight, I sit here proud.
Overwhelming proud.
Of M. For PASSING his dissertation defense.
(not that I had any shadow of a doubt that he wouldn’t).
Sitting 900 miles away, I wanted to be with him so badly, to help calm his nerves, hug him, put my hand on the back of his neck and tell him how much faith I have that he would rock his defense tonight. …but I couldn’t. So I did what I could by text, phone call, and Facebook status by way of: sending love, luck and ‘knock ’em dead’ vibes to a certain someone defending their presentation today. Incredibly proud <3. For those of you that know M, he isn’t a huge Facebook’er, but I think my support there, plus everyone else who weighed in (thank you!!), it helped motivate. Even just a little bit more.
As I sat in agony in the last sessions of the day at the conference I am at, I prayed. I channeled every bit of strength, courage and support that I could. And just hoped they somehow helped.
And I sat at dinner…by myself (!), with a glass of wine, sushi and the best bowl of citrus garden vegetable soup EVER, I experienced another kind of pride. Of myself. For finally conquering the dining out alone thang from my travel bucket list. I waited. And waited. For the call.
And when M called and I heard the elation in his voice, I knew. I don’t think I have ever heard him quite this happy. He passed. He’s DONE (save for a few last tweaks to his paper). And this Saturday when he walks through that door to a room full of family, friends and coworkers, I’ll sit there beaming. For pulling off an epic surprise. For gathering a group of people that genuinely care for M and the accomplishment he’s made.
Proud. To stand by a man that means so much to me, the world, truly…a man that has just reached a milestone he tried so hard to reach (and at the same time, tried to quit and run away from, because it was scary, out of his ‘zone, and just plain HARD…but he didn’t. He DID it.). A man that deserves every bit of joy and happiness over finally capturing a goal he’s had for years.
Proud.
❤
Congratulations!!! 🙂 Awesome news!
Thank you! I know you would totally get it as a recent grad too!
Congrats to M! What an accomplishment!
Thanks, it truly has been!! I am so proud!
Woo hoo! Congrats to M!
Deserves an epic celebration right?!
Yay!! Congrats to M! I have no doubt that he could feel all of your support. Proud of you for having dinner on your own and crossing that off your travel bucket list. See? Wasn’t so bad, right?
Thank you! Yes, I really hope he could feel my support! And going to dinner myself was much better with tweets from fabulous people like you 🙂 XO!
Whoop! Congrats M! Have so much fun at the well earned par-Tay!
Part-ay indeed! I thought I was the only one who said that – love that 😉 (part-ay!)
WOOHOO!!! Congrats to M. He deserves to party his ass off! You are such an awesome support center for one another and I’m sure you have helped him through a lot with this. YAY!
He DOES deserve to party his ass off!!! 🙂 I am glad to support, it’s just so natural for both of us to do!
Awww this made me all teary – the love and support and adoration you have for M is palpable in this post. I love it so much! SO proud of M!! (and you for eating alone, yay!!)
It was teary for me to write. I love him more each day and I am just so damn proud of him.
Congrats to M. I know you wanted to be there, but you also know he knows your full support.
Thank you friend, you’re right, I was beating myself up about it, but I probably would have made him more nervous!
Yayayay!!!!!!! Congrats to M!!!!!!!!!!
woohoo! Love the support, thank you!
Awwwww yay!!! That’s fantastic news! Good for him!
It is the best news I have heard…right up there with YOU coming to VISIT!!!!!!!!! 🙂
Congrats to M! Congrats to you, too, I hope you have the awesomest time this weekend!
You should come up for the party 😉
I’d LOVE to but I already have Saturday night plans. But, 2 weeks from Sunday is race day! YAY Already can’t wait to see you guys again!
I figured 😉 there in spirit!!
Absolutely – shake M’s hand for me BAHAHAHAHA 😉
LOL! I will 😉
I’m proud of M and also YOU for having dinner by yourself!!! It’s exhilirating, isn’t it?!
Thank you!! Dinner alone WAS exhilarating!
Congrats M!!!! Have fun on Saturday!
Thank you! Can’t wait!! (so fun finally meeting you!)
Yay! Hope your surprise party goes smoothly. It’s going to be a great weekend!
I hope so too! Some of his friends he hasn’t seen in a long time are coming, I am thrilled!
Awwww! Yay M!!! Congrats! xoxo
Woohoo! Still so happy for him!